Thursday, 05 May 2011

Your Failures Don’t Define You




In December 1903, a New York Times editorial questioned the intelligence of the Wright brothers efforts to invent a machine that would fly. “It simply defies the laws of physics,” they argued. One week later, at Kitty Hawk, the Wright Brothers took their famous flight.

If you study history, you will find that all stories of great success are also stories of great triumph over adversity. But often we overlook the setbacks and only see the end success. We think the person got lucky. Or maybe they were just really smart. Or talented. Or well connected. But that’s all bunk. While it may have been a little bit of each, what ultimately led to their success was their refusal to allow their setbacks and failures to define them. Nor anyone else.

Albert Einstein did not speak until he was four and did not read until he was seven. His teachers and even his parents thought he was mentally handicapped, slow and anti-social. Eventually, he was expelled from school and was refused admittance to the Zurich Polytechnic School. But Einstein did not let his critics define him. Nor accept defeat. And while he may have been a ‘slow starter’, I’m sure you’d agree that he eventually caught up pretty well. Today this Nobel Laurete’s name is synonymous with genius.

One day a partially deaf four-year-old kid came home with a note in his pocket from his teacher, “Your Tommy is too stupid to learn. We cannot have him at our school.” His mother decided to teach him herself. Partially deaf and with only three months of formal schooling Tommy grew into a man that changed the course of history. Thomas Edison went on to fail approximately 10,000 times before he succeeded in inventing the light bulb. And even Oprah Winfrey, my very own hero, was fired from a junior reporter job being told she was “unfit for TV.” Oprah unfit for TV?! She has redefined it!

Of course, you may feel like you have little in common with Oprah, Edison or Einstein. But that isn’t true. You do. They were not born with some super-human-like resilience that shielded them from disappointment, self-doubt or misgivings. They each had to wage their own inner battles with fear of failure as they worked hard to overcome the external obstacles that lined their path to success. What distinguishes these people is that they did not become a victim to their failures. When they fell down, they got back up. And when people told them it couldn’t be done, they refused to buy into their lack of belief.

There are things that you and only you can do. Things that will never be done if you do not do them. But any worthwhile accomplishment is going to call on you to trust in yourself more fully, to risk making mistakes and forgive yourself when you do, to press on when the going gets tough, and to refuse to allow your setbacks to define you (no the cynics in your life).

How you choose to interpret your failures will either move you forward in life or hold you back. Every failure can be turned into a stepping stone to success. Every mistake is a lesson in what not to do. Every setback is an opportunity to dig deeper in to yourself, to access resources you didn’t know you have and to acquire wisdom you could gain no other way.

Every story of success is also a story of triumph over adversity. What story are you writing?

- Maggie Warrell
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Tuesday, 03 May 2011

10 Secrets of Successful Entrepreneurs



Is there a way to determine whether you can be a successful entrepreneur, or you are better off to work for somebody else? Alas, there is no formula for success. However, most successful entrepreneurs share these ten characteristics. Check if you possess any one of them:


1. Think success.
To attain the kind of success that you want, you need to dream big. Every success story starts with big dreams. You need to have big dreams for yourself - which you want to be somebody rich, famous or fulfilled. You need to have a clear vision of what you want to achieve. But it doesn't stop in dreaming alone. You should actively visualize success in your mind that you can almost feel it, touch it or it is within your reach. Play this image back at every opportunity. What does it feel to triple your current income? How will your life change? What will your business look like if you achieved the million-dollar mark?

Successful entrepreneurs possess an attitude of openness and faith that you can have what you want if you can simply envision it as the first step on the path of action to acquiring it. Management gurus have taught us the power of visualization - seeing yourself in your mind as having accomplished your dreams. If you want to be a successful writer, envision yourself signing books for a throng of people who have lined up to have your autograph. If you want to be rich, picture yourself in luxurious surroundings holding a fat bank account. And the process of envisioning success for you should be a constant activity! You need to think that you are successful every single waking hour. A friend & personal development coach shared me her secret to help her continuously visualize her goals for the moment: when climbing stairs, recite your goal with every step you take. So if you want more money, say "I have money" in every step of the stairs. This technique will reinforce your goal and keep it fresh in your consciousness.

2. Be passionate with what you do.
You start a business to change any or all part of your life. To attain this change, you need to develop or uncover an intense, personal passion to change the way things are and to live life to the fullest. Success comes easily if you love what you do. Why? Because we are more relentless in our pursuit of goals about things that we love. If you hate your job right now, do you think you will ever be successful at it? Not in a million years! You may plod along, even become competent at the tasks, but you will never be a great success at it. You will achieve peak performance and do what you have to do to succeed only if you are doing something that interests you or something that you care about. Entrepreneurs who succeed do not mind the fact that they are putting in 15 or 18 hours a day to their business because they absolutely love what they do. Success in business is all about patience and hard work, which can only be attained if you are passionate and crazy with your tasks and activities.

3. Focus on your strengths.
Let's face it; you cannot be everything to everybody. Each of us has our own strengths and weaknesses. To be effective, you need to identify your strengths and concentrate on it. You will become more successful if you are able to channel your efforts to areas that you do best. In business, for example, if you know you have good marketing instincts, then harness this strength and make full use of it. Seek help or assistance in areas that you may be poor at, such as accounting or bookkeeping. To transform your weakness to strength, consider taking hands-on learning or formal training.

4. Never consider the possibility of failure.
Ayn Rand, in her novel The Fountainhead, wrote, "It is not in the nature of man - nor of any living entity, to start out by giving up." As an entrepreneur, you need to fully believe in your goals, and that you can do it. Think that what you are doing will contribute to the betterment of your environment and your personal self. You should have a strong faith in your idea, your capabilities and yourself. You must believe beyond a shadow of a doubt that you have the ability to recognize and fulfill them. The more you can develop faith in your ability to achieve your goals, the more rapidly you can attain it. However, your confidence should be balanced with calculated risks that you need to take to achieve greater rewards. Successful entrepreneurs are those who analyze and minimize risk in the pursuit of profit. As they always say, "no guts, no glory."

5. Plan accordingly.
You have a vision, and you have enough faith in yourself to believe that you can achieve your vision. But do you know how to get to your vision? To achieve your vision, you need to have concrete goals that will provide the stepping-stone towards your ultimate vision. Put your goals in writing; not doing so just makes them as intangible fantasies. You need to plan each day in such a way that your every action contributes to the attainment of your vision. Intense goal orientation is the characteristic of every successful entrepreneur. They have a vision, and they know how to get there. Your ability to set goals and make plans for your accomplishment is the skill required to succeed. Plan, plan and plan - because without which failure is guaranteed.

6. Work hard, Work smart!
Every successful entrepreneur works hard, hard and hard. No one achieves success just by sitting and staring at the wall every single day. Brian Tracy puts it out this way, "You work eight hours per day for survival; everything over eight hours per day is for success." Ask any successful businessperson and they will tell you immediately that they had to work more than 60 hours per week at the start of their businesses. Be prepared to say goodbye to after-office drinks every day, or a regular weekend get-away trip. If you are in a start-up phase, you will have to breathe, eat and drink your business until it can stand on its own. Working hard will be easy if you have a vision, clear goals, and are passionate with what you do.

7. Constantly Look for Ways to Network.
In business, you are judged by the company you keep - from your management team, board of directors, and strategic partners. Businesses always need assistance, more so small businesses. Maybe the lady you met in a trade association meeting can help you secure funding, or the gentleman at a conference can provide you with management advise. It is important to form alliances with people who can help you, and whom you can help in return. To succeed in business, you need to possess good networking skills and always be alert to opportunities to expand your contacts.

8. Willingness to Learn.
You do not need to be a MBA degree holder or PhD graduate to succeed in your own business. In fact, there are a lot of entrepreneurs who did not even finish secondary education. Studies show that most self-made millionaires have average intelligence. Nonetheless, these people reached their full potentials achieved their financial and personal goals in business because they are willing to learn. To succeed, you must be willing to ask questions, remain curious, interested and open to new knowledge. This willingness to learn becomes more crucial given the rapid changes in technologies and ways of doing business.

9. Persevere and have faith.
No one said that the road to success is easy. Despite your good intentions and hard work, sometimes you will fail. Some successful entrepreneurs suffered setbacks and resounding defeats, even bankruptcy, yet managed to quickly stand up to make it big in their fields. Your courage to persist in the face of adversity and ability to bounce back after a temporary disappointment will assure your success. You must learn to pick yourself up and start all over again. Your persistence is the measure of the belief in yourself. Remember, if you persevere, nothing can stop you

10. Discipline yourself.
Thomas Huxley once said, "Do what you should do, when you should do it, whether you like it or not." Self-discipline is the key to success. The strength of will to force yourself to pay the price of success - doing what others don't like to do, going the extra mile, fighting and winning the lonely battle with yourself.

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Monday, 02 May 2011

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Sunday, 01 May 2011

Success & Shyness


Is the world of success confined only to people who are extroverts? Absolutely not.

In fact, the most extroverted people are often at risk through being so unaware of what is really going on with the people around them. If they are extrovert and egotistical, they will not be listening, unless someone is praising them and feeding their ego. So, they may have a soft underbelly in terms of achievement, simply because their ability to acquire knowledge, especially about other people, is limited. Overcoming shyness is actually easier to overcome than being extrovert with an inflated, and misguided, ego.

Shy people, on the other hand, may quietly take in an enormous amount from simple observation that is beyond the perception of an extrovert who is obsessed with their own ego. Ideally, of course, a successful person and leader should be capable of being extrovert or introvert, depending on the circumstances and the need of the moment. A powerful extrovert who knows when to listen and when to delegate, and how to learn from the quieter people around him, is best geared to be a success in whatever he chooses. Throw in some modesty, and there you could have a great person who needs to prove nothing, because he will naturally attract and generate success.

A shy person can still be a big success in their chosen field, though, and may easily outstrip the extrovert in some.

If You Are Introverted And Shy, Dare Your Way To Success

It is true that shyness can be something of a drawback socially for those who suffer from it acutely. I mean real shyness, not somebody who is simply quiet. Because somebody is fairly quiet in your company when you meet them, does not mean they are shy. They could be, but on the other hand they may just be observing because they are unsure of you or others in your company. They may be capable of being extrovert and sociable, but on this particular occasion, are quiet.

I know this from my own experience, because I can be both introvert and quiet, or if the occasion demands, silly, extrovert and outgoing. In my case, because I like people, nature and other things around me, I like to observe and learn. But I certainly did not become a business consultant long ago because I was shy; I did not organise social and sporting events because I was shy; and I did not approach beautiful girls because I was shy.

Yet, on some occasions when I have met people, they have jumped to the conclusion that I'm shy simply because I was in a quiet mood. They were wrong; but they could have been right.

One thing I have learnt from those experiences is that those who observe and listen more and talk less, can gain a position of strength. This means that even a genuinely shy person, the type who blushes easily and is reluctant to talk in company, especially new company, can become a strong person, in just about anything they choose. Remember, knowledge is power, and a shy introvert is in a better position to acquire knowledge than an extrovert.

It is widely accepted that timid people know a great deal about human character in general, although they normally may not dare to get in contact with that many themselves. Even if these painfully shy people had little social life, most of them grew up as great human resources managers or psychologists, simply because they could analyze others better than a self opinionated extrovert. Also they can tend to choose careers that require a lot of PR work, just because they have a need to prove to themselves that they can do it.

Introverted people can give great attention to learning, and as good listeners they can take in an enormous amount from others. Over time, people can come to respect them far more than the extrovert who blasts out nothing but hot air, and usually about themselves.

What does it take, then for a very shy person to be that successful person they always wanted to be. They may only need one more ingredient to push them on their way. They need to dare themselves to take the leap; and when they do, they will probably find all the knowledge they have acquired over the years, will come to the fore and help them on their way to the top in their chosen field.

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